Sara, I think it's a good idea to go for IC.

People have different ways of saying sorry. Try reading when sorry isnt enough. It's the 5 languages of apology.

In a nutshell, the 5 languages are:
1. Expressing regret: I am sorry
2. Accepting responsibility: I was wrong
3. Making restitution: How can I make it right
4. Genuinely repenting: I want to change
5. Requesting forgiveness: Can you find it in your heart to

Which of the 5 would really speak to you? Is your H aware? (Not sure if right now is a good time to let him know. Prob when you go MC together?)

Which has your H spoken?

If I remember correctly, at different points of the pendulum swing, your H has expressed 1 and 2.

Personally, at the beginning of piecing, I feel that 3 is quite promising. 4 and 5 may come very much later.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.