Hi Feyth, I'm sorry to read this my lovely. Hey listen - this isn't a case of him being 'generous' with 'his' assets. these are assets built together over the course of your R and M. Please don't feel intimidated by these veiled 'it's gonna get ugly' threats. You only need deal with him through your L and calmly keep in mind what would be fair and acceptable to you.

Have you done some rough sums of what would seem reasonable? You know what we did, but I'm not sure about the law where you are? Also, cohabitation is taken into account in the UK.

Take care Feyth - this too shall pass xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus