Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 5

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Sara-

Yes, if your WH truly believes he couldn't keep his pants zipped because you were no fun during 9 months of pregnancy ... well, let's home that silly thought is something he'll disavow once he returns to reality.

Anyway, you seem to require that he feel true remorse in order for you to go forward with him. Is that really a requirement? Sandi seems to say wayward spouses take a loooong time to feel remorse; that they might even come back into the relationship but not feel remorse for a while.

Also, what do you (or he?) mean when you say he feels regret but not remorse. What's the difference? Not being argumentative. Would like to understand.

Wish you peace & sleep.