Divorce is just the worst thing in the world and as they say the only winners are the lawyers. I know everyone says to treat it as a business transaction but that's so hard when the person you are dealing with is someone you love and the only reason why you are doing this is because it is what they want. I remember sitting in my lawyers office in complete floods of tears every single appointment because of the things my H said about me. I am filled with dread that I may have to go through this again.
I don't think there is any easy answer. All you can do is be kind to yourself and keep reminding him that this is not what you want but in the circumstances you have to protect yourself.
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')
