I agree, a platonic marriage is hell. Not for the LD spouse, they like it that way! My H watches so much TV sometimes I just want to throw it out the window. I got home early today, about 3 hours before he did, and I had no desire to turn the boob tube on. As soon as he walked in the door, the remote got picked up and it was turned on. He will spend hours sitting in there watching Sci-fi or something else, but won't spend any time on anything else that doesn't suit him. I asked him to read SSM back in Janurary. I have seen it move to different places and the bookmark is about 1/4 of the way into the book, but now is under a bunch of stuff on the table.
I maintain that if the LD spouse doesn't want to work on the marriage, its not going to work. JMHO
