I'm with bond....mrbond.

Let him talk to his ow or bartender about all the reasons he's leaving and wants out. He's said it to you. No need to sit there and listen to it over and over as he convinces himself again. Don't sit and listen about his day or tell him about yours. if it's not about the bills or kid then don't have the convo. Not yet anyway. Distance and him not being able to keep tabs on your daily activities and being able to vent to you about his will surely show a noticeable 180.

I'm a little confused as to why you bought a house 6 months before he was moving with you? What was the rush?


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17