Bottom line is if you want to save your marriage, you have a 50/50 chance with the method mentioned above and it's not DB. As mentioned, it was tailored to his situation that isn't yours. You don't have to be there to listen to his complaints if you don't want to and you don't have to agree with what he says when he does call.
Keep living your life the way you want to and don't keep it on hold for him. It's tough but you can do it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.