It might not all be about hurting you. You tore a hole in his heart. He might be acting this way (OW) to bury the pain to get over you.

He wont be rational at this time, i know i wasnt no matter how hard i tried to be. My core being was shattered when it happened to me.

Some professional help to process his feelings would be beneficial to him. Problem is it cant come from you, hes likely to dismiss what you say at this time.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.