I think because I am out of crises mode and wondering if we're piecing or...what?
IDK TBH. Might be worth reading up a little on it. I think its easy to assume you are but even if you are. it doesn't change how you react. Just be kind and nice and create new happier memories. The Marshmellows one might be a little one. Take your time, there's no rush. Be kind to yourself.
Incidentally. Coly's started posting in MLC section. They guys in there are really to the point and seem to really understand things clinically. Given how they speak about MLC'ers it made me think of your H. Might be worth stopping over for a read. It just might be some fresh approaches that help.
Take care.
Surfer.
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