Summer Fling turned into nightmare

[bluthre]

thank you and I do feel as though he is lashing out asked him why is he talking to other women? is he looking to start a new relationship etc, he says no he's not looking for anything serious and they know that so I think he's doing it to hurt me! yes the affair has ended and no contact is being made with the other person but my husband doesn't believe me ive written down all my social media account passwords phone password etc and told him he can check anything when he'd like but he still refuses to believe that ive stopped talking to the other guy or he will go on to say that im talking to someone else that's closer to home since this guy is 1000 miles away.