Do you have the 5LL book? If not, go out and get it. Read it in private and see if you can figure out her LL. Then you can start trying things with her to see how she responds... and she won't worry about the psychobabble 'crap,' you know?
There could be something to the Quality Time, Quality Conversation, so start there. Be more empathetic. Really listen to what she says... when she is talking to you, look her in the eye, physcially lean toward her when she speaks, don't interrupt, but encourage her to expound more on her thoughts... compliment her on her perception of things, tell her you never thought of something that way, how interesting... affirm what she is saying, and try to build on it, kind of like Cemar did on the LD Space thread to my post... use kind and encouraging words with her, and stay away, for now, from anything that has to do with the 'physical,'... just see what happens.
It may not be THE thing for her, but if it is... then you know, hm?
