Hey Cil~~ sorry I missed your post this morning; we must have been posting at the same time. To answer your question, yes,there are 4 colleges in the area, but whether they have counseling programs, I am unsure. I will look into though--thanks for the suggestion.
For the most part, I am doing ok. At this point, it feels like A is not even the issue anymore, but all that has happened since, and needs to happen in the future, in order for this M to work. Or more importantly, be better than it was. The hard work has just begun.
peace~~you have a way with words! I do believe that trust and happiness is a choice, and I have come a long way on both. Much like having an A--its a choice, his choice, and he def could choose it again. I have no control over that, but as you lovingly pointed out, he is choosing to stay with me.
Me 47 H 49 S18 S15 M 21 BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16 Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16 BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16 Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June H leaves 5/7/16