The 180's and GAL are for YOUR benefit, not his. Do these things because it makes you happy and a better person; not to win him back. If what you are doing is making him angry and irritated, then it IS working. Keep it up. So long as he is in an EA/PA, he can't appreciate anything. So continue to work on you and let him stew in the mess he has created. Its ok to listen to him and validate him. But you are not obligated to respond any further than that.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
