Oh Feyth, I really feel for you. I know that gut wrenching, fearful feeling of the inevitable with D. I'm not sure how long it takes where you are but you might still have time to make a positive impact as you were before. It looked like what you were doing before was working so H's lack of eye contact is just his guilt. Maybe just keep doing what you were doing before.
Wow 30 day boot camp with all food and exercise laid out for you! I would love that! Is that 30 continuous days?
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')