Thank you! Sotto after doing some reading here I do see that I'll need to prepared to talk about it again and again it just grosses me out having to publicly talk about my encounter with the other guy but i'm beginning to understand its part of his healing in the beginning I thought he was just torturing making me talk about it. with the other guy he is from a different culture so I feel that's what had me learning new things accent etc something completely different from when i'm home it was all "new" and I was suckered in.


my husband is 28 and I'm 27, we have one son (6)
together 10 married 5