GB, no, I don't think he's connected to OM. I saw a message early on after she BD, and there was a message from "Doug and Caroline" where he said he was going to be in town for work, and would she be interested in meeting up? She replied, "I don't know my schedule, but maybe we can meet with <GirlFriend1> and <<GirlfFriend2>".

I then saw a message to another GF, where she said, "Doug asked about meeting in October" and her friends said, "Oh, a little dinner and drinks would be OK" and my W replied, "Nope, he's Married."

Which is funny as sh*t since she had just screwed some married dude. My guess is, she said that cause she was infatuated with OM1, but now that OM1 is gone, she decided to go out with this Doug fella (who I believe she also met on that same vacation, but all the girls met him and his friends, not just my W and him alone).

Anyway, that's the sitch now, we'll see if she carries on an EA with this guy now, I'm just like whatever. I really want to get out there and find some girl; I know, you guys say don't do that, but, man, I want to.

But, I'm going to continue to detach best I can, thanks for the words.

M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16