Shelob's Lair

[Painter]

Just stopping by this forum to catch up. I Haven't moved in here because WH has not filed for D.

Zues, when your ex complains about the kids going back and forth, you can tell her sweetly that you'll be happy to keep them full time.

She's playing such games. I've seen this fake concern before. Be careful and read up on parental alienation because it is one of the behaviors.

I also wanted to mention something you may not have considered - that a R after a D can be very healing. I have met someone who is still only a friend, but we are aware that we could build a very special R together down the road.

This person is honest and open in a way I have never encountered before, patient, and has some baggage of his own. Our interactions and deep conversations are not only supportive and comforting, but helps me process things from my M that I wasn't able to finish with WH. I feel myself grow and move forward as a person, and regardless what we end up as, I will take with me this experience as extremely valuable.

I thought I was going to be alone for the rest of my life...