Evening All! Thanks so much for all your comments in my new thread and Job thank you for posting the link to my old one!

Andrew & Altair, we can post stuff on our own and each other's threads and if there is anything significant occurring in our sitches then off course we should post about it! Let's not have too many rules just fun!! If anyone else wants to join in you are welcome!

Job, Sotto - I was hoping that leaving clothes behind might mean H is undecided about moving out completely but I guess as you say some don't want those clothes anymore as they are a link to the past... I would be surprised as he has left some very nice suits in his wardrobe!

Esame, thanks for stopping by. I love that you are going to get your kids bunnies! I loved our bunny she was a real character. Probably the nosiest bunny in the world! Anything we got new she had to come over to have a look and investigate!

Feyth, I think your right about starting small. Like Altair, I'm not sure if I could manage a marathon but I might try for a 10k next year. I did do one a few years ago but it would be good to have another go and see if I can beat my time!

Blu, I like what you said about having hope but no expectations. I'm beginning to see that this is what causes me spiral with disappointment. The NC is the best way for me to prevent this happening. I think the hope will always be with me but for now I need to push it to one side of my heart and move forward with my life.

So GAL activities. I went to the gym straight after work and ran 3k, did some weights and sit ups. I've also booked in for yoga tomorrow night at my gym. It will be my first time and I'm really looking forward to it. An old work friend texted me tonight to arrange to meet up in November (she is very busy and has a baby so has to book things well in advance). I was going to see some friends at the weekend but they have had to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances eek I'll probably go to the gym again at the weekend and plant some spring bulbs that need to be planted asap!

How is everyone else doing?


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')