My has told me that there is no way we are not getting a divorce, she has started the paperwork and is looking for an apartment.
I saw her for the first time in two weeks the other day while I was taking care of some legal matters. While I can not get into the details, I will say that someone my wife is very close to, threatened me with severe bodily harm and I had to go to the authorities.
Her goal that day was to disrupt and dissuade me, even wearing sexy clothes to do so.
While she has been sending me heartfelt emails and text almost daily about what "once was", she is adamant that this is for the best.
She has said recent events has shown her that we just can't work.
I'm preparing for the legal reaming I may receive as well as the financial fall out. We had a true partnership money wise, but now I do not know how I can pay the bills, she says she is almost out of money (while still hiding away), and she says that she needs to file the separation paperwork ASAP.
All those years, I tried...I guess I tried in the wrong way.