Even if you couldnt sleep, why were you sitting vigil at the kitchen table? Just lay in bed reading or playing games on your phone.
I was laying in my bed, reading. She came into our bedroom and started talking to me (but again, about nothing special). I was A-OK for her to just go into the guest room and not say a word to me.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16