Thanks Cadet. You guys are so amazing taking all your time to respond to everyone. Just the few days I have been in these forums has made an immeasurable difference to my understanding of my sitch.

I have only this single thread at the moment, but I suspect Sandi is responding to many different threads and it must be hard to keep track.

M 46 W 41
MR 17 T 18
S12 D14 S17

03/15 : ILYBINILWY
10/15 : IDLYA
01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!"
10/16 : She discusses Seperation
BUT...she's still here..for now