Still hanging on ... just

[Oluwa]

Please don't take what I said out of the perspective in which it was written. I said nothing about kicking her out of the bedroom for saying she doesn't love her H.

Thanks Sandi, this was the clarification I was seeking. You sent me the link about how a spouse can lose respect for their H, which is very relevant in my case. It discussed how you need to concentrate on being a man, rather than trying to be a good H at this time. But there were alot of suggested actions there, and some of them were definitely only relevant for a wife having an A. You stated : "Therefore, the H's response to those actions should be a much tougher love comparable to a W who is not in an A".

I hope you don't feel I am nitpicking, just trying to understand the level of detachment. The book is ordered and I will hopefully get it early next week.