Hey Mel! So glad you came back to update. I agree with Sotto's advice. BlueWave's threads are about piecing and have great insight's from many others having difficulties and successes in piecing. Its a difficult journey, as well. A lot of wisdom there, though.

On the MC topic: do you have a university near by with a counseling program? Often times they run their own inexpensive or free counseling clinics to train the students, but they are observed and guided by their instructors during sessions. It might be worth a look.

I am so happy that you have the opportunity to work on your M with your H. But I can understand how difficult and stressful that can be. Trust, once damaged, carries scar tissue that can be hard to loosen. I'm sending you as much strength as I can squeeze through this keyboard. Patience, as well. I imagine you'll need it.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.