New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[j20a00g]

You are filling your brain with OM thoughts and it's clouding your good judgement. Again, just like the other guy, A's are symptoms. Try having a cold without a runny nose. Until the main issues are fixed, A's will continue. Like you said, it didnt matter if she told you she had wild hotel sex or not. IT DOESNT CHANGE A THING! Stay the course! Next time be "asleep" when she gets home. Or, as she's walking in the door, walk out without saying a word. Hold your tongue. A few words can set you back weeks.