For example, kicking her out of the MBR, when she is expressing that she doesn't love me, not that she is being unfaithful would seem too drastic.
Please don't take what I said out of the perspective in which it was written. I said nothing about kicking her out of the bedroom for saying she doesn't love her H.
If my description does not fit your W, then that's fine. But you know, I hope, that she doesn't have to be in an A to classify as wayward. An A, acting like girls gone wild, or some other outrageous/out of character behavior......is the open rebellion to wlhat has been brewing below the surface. The years of resentment and disrespect start sprouting into other problems in the MR, but resentment and disrespect seem to be at the bottom.
If you feel more comfortable believing you ran a good woman off........then get yourself straightened out. Why did you wait so long to seek therapy, if you were left with so much emotional trauma when your mother died?
Anyway, you need to get Divorce Remedy ASAP!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
