I agree with MrBond - it sounds like you should slow down and read DB or DR.

Originally Posted By: G_Main
I feel like its back firing because he's not at all intrigued by my sudden detachment.

Have you read the thread on detachment? It sounds like you are defining detachment as cutting H out of your life completely. As being distant and keeping to yourself.

That is NOT detachment.

That might help you in the process of becoming detached, but it isnt what detachment is. I believe that detachment is about separating your emotional wellbeing from his words, actions, feelings. Its about getting off of the rollercoaster up and down of his emotional condition.

Originally Posted By: G_Main
More like he's annoyed. He keeps asking me what my problem is and it makes him angry, which I feel like is pushing him away further.

So you equate anger with moving farther away? He keeps asking about you...that sounds like being intrigued to me.

Keep reading and keep posting. Im sorry youre here, but you couldnt have stumbled on a better place.