Hi Darkness, Its something that I'm just realizing so do need to look at this (and whilst it may all be connected), I can only deal with so much in one go.
It's not my job to fix her is it. I can only concentrate on myself and if she changes her mind see where I'm at at that point (see, I think I'm getting it).
My instinct says to 'fight' which I've learnt is counter productive and pushes her away even further, but I've historically been a 'fixer'. Somethings broken, I try to fix it. Going against the grain feels very strange.
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
