Has anyone split up and put two hundred miles of distance between you and your ex does this work I would have thought that over the pond when people split up they move from state to state .
What do you mean, "does this work"? What are you referring to as "working"?
You went house hunting and took a step toward a future for you and the kids. Great job!
You do not need your W's approval. You are not her little boy. When women want a divorce, they aren't going to show the H approval. You showed courage by getting out of your spinning and made a positive action for yourself, and the family.
If she knows your buttons to push, stop reacting like you always did, and act as if it doesn't bother you. Don't watch her cry. You are not the one wanting to split the family. She is twisting the truth. She wants to keep things as they are. But that doesn't work well for you, b/c there is respect and love in the M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
