Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #5]

[Cherry]

Forgump, I haven't checked up on you for a while, and I just want to send a lot of love to you in this difficult time.

I'm sure you've seen on my thread the trials and tribulations of my wh. He too has a lot of issues and needs medical help, only he is in utter denial and meets this with anger. Unfortunately, as hurtful as it is, they're adults, and we can't force them. They need to want to help themselves. It's hard to learn to switch the default of helping them off.

I agree with Sara about still acting with kindness. Sure we could hit back at the ws with anger, but where does that get us?! I find it better for myself if I can be kind and cordial, and I know by doing that I'm doing the right thing for my child.

I like your idea of doing something meaningful that you want to get out of the next day. Just make sure some of that is something for you.