Thanks Mrbond. My friend just emailed me that they have ordered it today. So hopefully next week sometime I will get the DR book.

With the quote you highlighted I was trying to say that I dont feel doing etc housework etc is the real reason. As although I have done more of those things and she has noticed, it hasn't made much fifference. This is essentially what I have read on sandhis posts that being nicer and more helpful is not going to solve the problem. This I agree with and is why I am trying to understand and start executing DB methods. But yes its alot to take in and I dont have the book yet.


M 46 W 41
MR 17 T 18
S12 D14 S17

03/15 : ILYBINILWY
10/15 : IDLYA
01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!"
10/16 : She discusses Seperation
BUT...she's still here..for now