Hi Coly, great first start to your new thread. Great idea for you, Altair, and Andrewp to all support each other in your efforts to take the focus off your spouses and back for yourselves! In terms of goals, think small and reward yourself for reaching your milestones! I found my short term goals were better achieved because I was able to keep my focus and energy strong! If it took too long to achieve, part of my drive would lessen just a bit. So I just wanted to go back-to back- to back with experiences/goals. It's worked for me anyway!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
