Coly and Sotto, My apologies- I think I missed your posts. Thanks for the feedback. I'm not sure how to come across to h trying to explain that I don't want this to be adversarial... Since I'm not in agreement with what How he wants to divide things, it's automatically adversarial. Arg. Can't win!
Coly, I'm glad your judge was cool about your situation! some times you need that reinforcement!!! You're not the crazy one!
I'm still a bit down. H and I were definitely getting a little more relaxed with eachother for a few weeks over the summer. Started chatting a bit more during dog swap ( not much- we're talking 1 min vs 30 sec) but we were friendly and cordial. Now that he's filed, it's like bd again. He can't even make eye contact with me. Honestly, I'm not sure if I could be doing anything different, but I don't have the energy to be watching and tracking every statement, etc. Uch....so over that phase.
Anyway, i signed up for my next GAL and fitness goal. I'm doing a 30 day boot camp challenge starting Nov 1. The workouts and the diet will all be laid out for me so it's great that there won't be any guess work. I'll just have to workout morning and night. I think this will be a good distracter and hopefully I'll be so tired that I can start sleeping again. I haven't slept since I've been served. Until then, I will be getting my fill of cheese, chips, and cookies before I have to give them up!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
