Thanks for this Sandhi, so much of it rings true for how I have behaved.

The thread is about how to deal with a WW, whereas, as far as I know, my wife is still only at WAS level. Am I to continue with some level of detachment, but not as drastically as in the thread.

For example, kicking her out of the MBR, when she is expressing that she doesn't love me, not that she is being unfaithful would seem too drastic.

Again, this is probably my fear coming in, its such a paradigm shift me to take on, but is a WAS approached a little different in terms of level of detachment (if there is such a thing).


M 46 W 41
MR 17 T 18
S12 D14 S17

03/15 : ILYBINILWY
10/15 : IDLYA
01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!"
10/16 : She discusses Seperation
BUT...she's still here..for now