New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[j20a00g]

Dude.......cmon! I know you have read DR. Now apply it!

You are all over the place and gal right into the R discussion "traps". Inviting her out to get new clothes? Really? Go on to five four club or any other clothing retailer and they will send you clothes. Talking about boob massages. You really appear to be needy and clingy no offense. Think about why she said she isn't and can't live in the same house. I guarantee these are some reasons.

Also, how are you privy to hers and the other girls convo when she went out the other night?

And why are you asking about the dinner with a friend? You even went a step further to validate your lack of trust in her by agreeing with her jab of him being married not mattering to you.

Trust me. I'm asking retorically. I know why. Don't do what feels right! Do what works or you have no chance at all. In some aspects you are out GAL but then you go home and it sounds like you try to act as if all is well. Dinner invites, shopping invites, asking for sex, asking to touch, asking where she's going and with who, watching shows as usual, etc.

As far as 401ks...worry about that when/if the time comes during either legal separation(if your state offers that) or divorce. For her to move out you don't need anything with your 401k. I can't stress enough that you aren't giving her space which is why she is pushing harder to run! Look at yourselves as opposite sides of a magnet. Closer you get she pushes away. Until she flips to the other side and comes to you. Back the eff off! I sure wish I had way sooner. Learn from all the other posters's mistakes and don't make them yourself! It's not one event that will make or break the M. But it's death by 1000 papercuts. /!: it seems as if every week you do about 10 papercuts and at some point she's gonna bleed out bro.

I'm really pulling for you! For all of us! You seem like an amazing dad (which to me is the most important thing) but stop reading about success and tips and start applying them before you lose the chance.