I wish more posters would stop pining for the person who is hurting them and let go. LET GO. It's your only hope for healing and their only hope for finding themselves and possibly a way back to the M. I feel that so many here are trying to be a lighthouse, a friend, and just waiting, when really they are a door mat with a lost soul.
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HOW? I think this is the question us newbs desperately want answers to. How do you LET GO? and even when we have (as I feel like I've done most of the time)...it's almost as though we haven't.
