Esame, I don't know much about them, but I believe that they can be worded in many different ways. I was simply curious about having people sleep over while you had your kids. I'm not too concerned about myself as I will give myself 2 years, but my wife is all kinds of messed up and not sure what she will see as morally acceptable at the moment.
I hope that she will be mature enough to not put your children through questionable situations. One of the reasons why I struggle with the prospect of dating after D is that I don't want my children around a person that is not their dad. But in the same way, I want them to experience a healthy loving relationship from their parents. I hope my boys will remember how things can be but my little girl is too young so if we don't have future relationships she will not see "normality". It stinks doesn't it.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
