Hello Lou, I've been thinking of you and wondering how you were getting along. I'm sorry to read that things have taken an unwelcome turn. But I am glad to read that you are taking it all in your stride.

I really do think that MLCers inch along - and they/we get to a place where things seem to move forward. Then they back track. But I do think for a long time, your sitch has been steadily moving forward in a positive direction. Perhaps the pressure of the change has led to a bit of a retreat. Also, I still think if the depression is present, the emptiness inside is translated into I don't feel X for you.

Only time will tell, but for now I would take off the pressure of moving things forward and co-exist with him for a bit, whilst making plans and doing some of your own stuff too.

I don't believe someone uproots their life and changes it all for someone that they just don't feel any attraction for....

Keep us posted my friend :)xx

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