Honeypot...this is the natural reaction to the situation. When someone in the R actually does change, the other person is forced to react. Now, we would all like to think they'll be overjoyed, but instead they feel some initial anger.

This is EXACTLY how my WAW behaved since my HD came back. Instead of being happy she was angry and hurt. Now....I think with PATIENCE Dave can carry on.

My WAW is still angry/hurt/pissed and I honestly don't think that will change until she acknowledges her role.

"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu