I understand that once the D is final that it isn't my circus any more, but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't be concerned about the conditions that my children live in when not with me.

Maybe I'm putting the cart before the horse, but I'm still confused as to whether or not she has someone else waiting and has intentions of having them around alot when my kids are present.

As for my short term goals...I just updated my bucket list. I have decided to set back out on my personal fitness journey. 15# to go to reach my weight goal. My list for the next 12 months include:
Begin Guitar and Saxophone lessons ASAP
Fill my freezer with venison Nov/Dec 2016
Sprint Triathlon April 2017
Tough Mudder Oct 2017

As for all of the traveling I had on the list...it included my wife. Ireland, Europe, Hawaii...I will either wait to take my kids by myself, or simply see if her fog lifts one day.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
ILYBINILWYA
HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!