Hi lovely V, I'm sorry you're feeling down - but not surprised as you have a lot going on, plus grieving for your Mum. As Doodler says, gentle things - cup of tea, self care...not sure about the skinny dipping. Has Doodler tried the English Channel in October? I'm not sure I even fancy that in July...now Doodler, if it was the Bahamas...

Take care V - I'm glad you got your hair done and lost a pound....baby steps.

Xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus