Boundaries are not "punishment". They are the actions that you will not tolerate and the consequences tied to them that only you can control. You are not controlling your spouse, they are free to do whatever they wish, but it's what you establish is best for you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
