Blu, I agree with Coly...you have to do what is right for you..I also have got a lot out of your posts!!! You are very to the point and it really makes me think and not stress out about every little interaction I have with my W. Just wanted to say hang in there!!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017