cheesyt 4- no more doormat!

[Coly23]

Hey Cheesey. I know what you mean about going dark. Nearly six weeks here and not a peep from H! It's actually benefiting me as I don't feel do anxious when I dont hear from him.

I think the way you are feeling is probably you detaching and that's good. I know you can't go completely dark because of D but your interactions with W when you do see her are pretty good. You might not realise but you are the lighthouse when you do this.

I think the question you need to ask yourself is what does letting go/moving forward look like to you? It might actually be no different to what you are doing now especially if you are not ready to date.

By the way I would be so annoyed if my H was still in bed till midday!