She has hers off, and me keeping mine on would just reinforce that she still "has" me (as Sandi might put it).
Kind of curious, but you do what you think is best for you.
In my opinion, my ring was a reminder of the vows that I took. It was not a symbol of ownership or servitude.
I wore my ring for me as a choice about what I believed in.
I think if you are gauging your reaction on what WW may or may not think, you are wasting your time.
I think, as part of my detachment, the ring should come off. I think having it on is a reminder of her all the time.
It's not an easy choice, but I know I've got to detach better, and I've done a poor job up to now. I think it's something to remind me to stay detached.
I don't really hold the ring up in any spiritual or sacred place, and, I know GB wants me to keep it on, but I don't think I can. Whether W notes or not, I don't think it matters right now.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
