Thanks for the reply, j. I know I shouldn't analyze every little thing but it's so hard sometimes not to. I will try to do better at just doing my own thing.
Playing dungeons and dragons with friends is a little trickier, we've been doing it for years and I don't want to stop doing something I enjoy just because he's there too. But I don't think he's going to quit either.
While I understand you enjoy it do you think it's helping or hurting your cause? Let's say you continue on and January comes and you end up divorcing....you still going to be going? Or do you think you stepping back and distancing may help show him that you can and will be ok without him which may help bring him closer?
Looking from an outsiders perspective, may be easier to take a break from d&d right now as opposed to likely stopping forever in January.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
