Two more things I forgot to mention:
#1, she's going to "dinner with friends" (as her text put it) tonight. Yesterday, I asked about the dinner while we were shopping (everyone was in a good mood), and she said it's a guy friend; then she said, "He's married, but I know that doesn't mean anything to you." and I replied, no, it doesn't..I did ask if I knew him, she said no.

So, I'm dealing with that, nothing I can do about it, but suck it up I guess.

Also, I think I'm going to take my wedding ring off. She has hers off, and me keeping mine on would just reinforce that she still "has" me (as Sandi might put it).

Thanks.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16