I haven't Rose, I've been concentrating on much other stuff that I just don't know where to start. Obviously this may be the best place.

YES!!! Spot on, my W has refused to talk with me about this for the last 7 weeks. I am trying to give her space, but clearly failing.

I do have a couple of ideas (was thinking about a language). I'll let you all know how I get on and challenge accepted Rose.

Thanks for your attention and support.

M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016