I am seeing a Relate Councillor however have only had one session (2nd one tomorrow).
I'm struggling with the GAL as we'd been together since I was 17 and I was all consumed with my family life (W & S). I don't really have any interests or hobbies which makes things even more difficult. I know that I need to try and find something.
Like most guys, I am throwing myself in to the gym when I don't have my S (however this is neither an interest or a hobby lol).
I do feel that things have gone a little too far now. The heartlessness that she displayed yesterday has really hurt me and shown a side to her that I don't want to be a part of.
Her attitude confuses me, I'd have thought that as someone who walked away from a non abusive or affair ridden M might show a little more compassion to someone who they'd shared a life with for so long - but apparently not. Guess this at least shows me what type of person she's become.
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016