A WW? (5)

[Surfer]

On the W confrontation front she got mad bc I put out ads mess this morning without asking W if D should have her Allegra. W got mad bc the washer wouldn't " work right" and I was the last person to do a load. W got mad bc I got D home 15 minutes later than we said we would, even though I texted W and told her we'd be late. Got D home AT lunch time, instead of 15 minutes before it. Can't make this up.

Ignore this. It's just spew. I had this for months. At least 6 and solid rage. She was being a total b!tch. I exited, validated etc. I did anything so my kids didn't get woken. She was scaring them a lot - and me. S would help, but it won't necessarily help the R. I feel a lot happier with her gone, WW, but I miss my lovely W. Weird how they change. Sandi has such insight as to why. For me I don't thing she will truly have any regrets until I pull the money and take 50% of the kids time. I am struggling with this. As I sit pondering how exactly to make some artwork work for her 40th. It's something from the kids, I want to make it perfect. But actually, I should probably say to the kids. Here's the concept. Here's the glue and scissors - make it look like an 8 and 6 year old have done it. Sad, we perhaps are spending so much time really wanting back a person that has gone. A person in love. Let's face it you never want what you can have. Seems like the DB process right through.

Talking of which, when in Boston, if you go down to the quayside you will see a lot of tea floating in the water, can we have it back please? No only joking, don't look at the water, look up at the very top balcony of the Custom House building. The one that overlooks the water. It's a Marriott now - or was. It's got a nice circular lobby if you like buildings you could pop in. It was there on that balcony on Sept 11th 2004 that I was on bended knee, around 3pm asking my girlfriend if she would marry me. She seemed like such a happy, non-wayward wife then. Ah well - happy memories.

The only other place we went was the cheers bar, the park and various restaurants.

Cool stuff with your D. Be that perfect example. My D and S would tell me to listen too. I do much, much more. I think in hindsight I would have set her some boundaries for these conversations, problem is you need to so this out of earshot of the kids if she goes neuclear easy. The last they want is parents arguing. They don't need that it screws the, up.

It's kids holidays here. I have em from Weds to Sun so I am taking them to a famous theme park in the North of England. They will love it. Have also invited grandma and grandad who they are missing so much. We will stay overnight then visit relative they are desperate to see. Then got an inflatable assault course on water at the 2012 Olympic pool in London booked. I like to do things like this. It builds memories for them. Rather than just passing them an iPad so I can do my thing or taking them to my friends - which WW seems to consider 'fun'. Going to have a crack at taking them skiing soon.

Enjoy the course and have a safe journey. At least you will get some peace. I wouldn't get in touch with W at all if I were you.....see what happens. Be ready for the calls and validate but that's it.

Take care.

Surfer.