Thanks Rose, yes some great advise and I'd love to be able to just detach - The R we had was a co-dependent one and yes I understand that this unhealthy.

I think that the issue that I've been encountering is that I don't know how to stop caring and detachment to me feels like it is going against every instinct I have.

That being said, the venom has resonated within me and I think I've come to realize that there is little hope of any R. And tbh with the spiteful person that was on the other end of the phone yesterday, I'm not sure I want a R with that person...

I'd LOVE to R with my W, but I have no idea where the hell she's gone.

Have I turned a corner and is this progress?...

Thanks all for the ongoing support.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016